How do modern girls get it for the first time
There is no choice for a woman in ancient foreign countries at first night, but as a modern man, we finally have the right to choose at first night. However, the first night is also important for girls, so the boy needs to learn to appease your other half and let her feel pleasure in sex instead of fear.
1. Learning to relax is very important for the success of the first sexual intercourse and to improve sexual pleasure;
2. Men should take the initiative to break the shy atmosphere through emotional words and caresses, and eliminate psychological barriers before sexual intercourse;
3. Men should be gentle, considerate and caring, and prevent brutality, which is more important for eliminating the tension of newly married wives;
4. Specially remind newly married couples that no matter what kind of embarrassment they encounter, they should be seen as a joke and quickly troubleshoot, and they must not be embarrassed by the old things, so that the embarrassment becomes a psychological burden. Only when the mentality is peaceful, can the couple march Sexuality.
5 major issues to be aware of for the first time
Notice what methods and techniques are available in the first night, but both men and women have different questions, so what kind of first time is perfect? What should I pay attention to for the first time?
First, is bleeding and pain a virgin?
The first sexual encounter in newlyweds is first exposed to the "hymen" problem. The hymen has always played a more important role in social and moral concepts than other sex organs. This is because its integrity has always been regarded as a reliable indicator of female chastity, or even the only indicator. In fact, judging from medical practice, it is not scientific to judge whether it is a virgin by bleeding or pain.
Because not every virgin has bleeding or pain during the first sexual intercourse, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person, and are thin, thick, loose, tight, large and small, and have different shapes, and some are due to vigorous exercise and riding. Ruptured by car, falls, trauma, menstrual emboli, masturbation, etc.; some of the older hymens have retracted themselves; some are not obvious at birth: some hymens are very stretchable, and they remain intact even after multiple sexual intercourses. . Therefore, it is obviously unfair to judge the wife's chastity solely by virtue of the hymen.
Second, what should I do if my first sexual intercourse fails?
It is also common to fail to have sex on the wedding night. According to analysis, the main reasons for the failure of the first sexual intercourse are: 10% of the penis has been weak (caused by excessive tension) before sexual intercourse; 8% have ejaculated before sexual intercourse or ejaculation (caused by excessive excitement, irritability) just after touching the female vagina; The woman's pain accounted for 35%; the unknown sexual intercourse accounted for 15%; the unknown cause accounted for 20%.
On the other hand, the failure of the first sexual intercourse is related to the experience of caress. The inexperienced people account for 2/3 of the failures. After the failure of the first sexual intercourse, they can understand the reason for 1/3. Most of the losers pass 2 -After 5 trial submissions, they can be combined smoothly, so even if you fail, you don’t have to be impatient or have any concerns. You can try again after a short break, or wait for a day or two after the two sides are stable, and after the fatigue of the newlyweds is relieved test.
If the man fails, the woman's accusations of "really useless" and "too bad" will often make the man who feels deeply ashamed suffer a greater psychological setback and get into trouble. At this time, if the woman can be reasonable, if it is nothing to say some whispering words, to give the man encouragement and comfort, the man will restore courage, and seek a harmonious and happy life.
