Why are men derailed? The survey shows that 48% of men believe that "unsatisfied emotion" is the main reason for the derailment. Men are also emotional animals. They need the appreciation and affirmation of their wives, hoping that wives can understand their efforts for the family and marriage. But men are not good at expressing emotions. They feel that it is masculine to take the initiative to please women, so the emotional needs of men are easily overlooked. It is important for women to create an "appreciative and considerate atmosphere" at home.
In the survey, only 8% of men said that dissatisfaction with sex life was the main reason for their derailment. Among these people, only 12% of men said that mistresses are more attractive than their wives. In most cases, men are emotionally derailed first, and sex is what happens next. If the wife is worried about her husband's derailment, then she should find ways to strengthen the relationship between the husband and wife, and not just meet her husband's needs in terms of sex. The survey also found that 73% of men were derailed at least one month after meeting another woman. This shows that before the husband is derailed, the wife has time to make judgments based on various signs. Common "derailment signals" include: increased time to return home; no longer have sex with wives; couples have more grievances; wives often do not answer calls. In these situations, the wife's instinctive reaction was to rise up and rebel, making a lot of noise. However, her husband's chance of confession is almost zero. At this time, it is best for the wife to grasp the things that she can control, such as adjusting her own behavior, taking the initiative to improve the marriage relationship, giving him praise without hesitation, putting the time of the two together first, and being more active in the life of the couple initiative.
In the survey, it is worth noting that 68% of derailed men never dreamed that they would behave infidelity to marriage, 66% of men felt guilty after derailment, and 77% of derailed men had one Friends of the track. Often with a derailed friend, the man will feel that the derailment is normal and reasonable. Women can’t simply ban their husbands from having sex with friends. They can let them go to watch games or eat together, but don’t go in or out of tempting places like bars or nightclubs. Another strategy is to spend more time with couples with the same marital happiness and values to create a better environment for consolidating marriage.
40% of men have an affair at work. Female colleagues who make men derailed are often praised and even admired by complimented women. Therefore, men also desire to feel like being held in heaven at home. When the husband frequently praises or mentions a female colleague, the wife should pay attention.
